Join husband and wife, Dan and Can, as they discuss faith deconstruction and spirituality and how their new life affects everything from marriage to parenting and everything in between.
Episode 76 Home Sweet Homeostasis
Did you know that your subconscious mind tries to regulate your experiences? It does a pretty good job and, likely...
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July 10, 2024
Pebbles 64 Love the One You Hate
This week, we discuss loving our “enemies”. Is this something that we should do? If so, how?
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July 05, 2024
Episode 74 What Is Truth?
Absolute truth. What is it? How can we know? Can we really know anything? Get philosophical with us as we discuss ...
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June 26, 2024
Pebbles 62 Divorce And Gender Roles
This week we discovered something interesting. Complementary marriages have a higher divorce rate than egalitarian...
00:26:58
June 21, 2024
Pebbles 60 Mindset Matters
This Pebble episode is all about reminding ourselves and our listeners that just because you leave high-control re...
00:19:33
June 07, 2024
Episode 72 De-Conversion Therapy
This week, we welcome our special guest, Sam, who has experienced the devastating effects of conversion therapy. S...
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June 05, 2024
Pebbles 59 Just Us Being Human
In this pebble episode, we don’t really have a topic. We’re tired and human and just have a quick, short conve...
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May 31, 2024
Episode 70 The Preying Christian
Join Dan and Candi as we share our thoughts on why Christians help the groups that they do and why they are more e...
00:59:20
May 29, 2024
This week, Dan and Can discuss how judgement has two sides; both are equally harmful.
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May 24, 2024
Episode 69 Maga Rehab w/Joel
Join Dan and Candi along with their friend, Joel. In Joel’s own words, “I didn’t leave the church, the chur...
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May 22, 2024
In this pebble, we discuss how and why Christians are so often called hypocrites.
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May 17, 2024
Pebbles 56 Sliding Into the DMs
Got unwanted visitors in your private messages? Condescending remarks in your comment sections on social media po...
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May 10, 2024
Pebbles 55 Forgive or Forgive Not
This week we talk about forgiveness. Who is it for? Is it necessary?
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May 03, 2024
Episode 66 Battle for the Mind
In this episode, Dan and Can discuss the battle for the mind. How should we view black-and-white thinking? As evan...
01:19:57
May 01, 2024
Episode 65 Christian Uncomfort Zone
This week, we contrast and compare the comfort zone of evangelicalism with the comfort zone of deconstruction. One...
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April 24, 2024
Dan and Candi are sharing their testimonies. Were all those exciting testimonies that we heard as evangelicals tru...
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April 17, 2024
Episode 63 Mormon Deconstruction
This week we welcome a special guest, Jen, from @allthoseopposed on TikTok. Dan and Candi learn that Mormons and E...
01:49:46
April 10, 2024
Pebbles 51 The End Ain’t Near
The upcoming solar eclipse is simply another natural event that induces fear/excitement in many Christians of Chri...
00:30:50
April 05, 2024
Episode 62 Love of Finances
This one is a wild ride from Christian love to the capitalism to communism to socialism, we were all over the pla...
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April 03, 2024
Pebbles 49 Holy Rollercoaster
In this pebble, Dan and Candi discuss how life is supposed to be like a rollercoaster, not a Ferris wheel.
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March 22, 2024
Episode 60 Belief It Or Not
“You never really believed!” Heard this before? Ah! Gotta love how the Christian mind can’t open even a sliv...
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March 20, 2024
Pebbles 48 The Holy Spirit
As exfundamental Christians, we were taught that the Divine Spirit was with us to convict us of our wrongs (sins)....
00:24:12
March 15, 2024
Episode 59 Renew Your Mind
Renewing your mind used to mean something very different to us when we were evangelicals. Today, it represents a b...
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March 13, 2024
Pebbles 47 Fake It Or Find It
What do Disney childhood actors have in common with kids raised in fundamentalist Christianity? Today, Dan and Can...
00:27:53
March 08, 2024
Pebbles 46 Getting Sexy With It
Leaving Christianity often requiresuntangling from purity culture too. We need to deprogram our programs, and puri...
00:25:11
March 01, 2024
Episode 55 Valentine’s Day…Meh
This week we discuss our “love” of Valentine’s Day and all the lack of love it can produce. Throw comparison...
01:13:16
February 14, 2024
This week, Dan and Candi talk about a new understanding of the gospel. One they think will bring good news to you ...
00:26:39
February 09, 2024
Episode 53 Morality…It’s In You
The evangelical church claims to have the moral high ground, but is it true? Is the written law really where mora...
01:13:10
February 07, 2024
Episode 51 The More You Know…
This week, Dan and Candi discuss how as evangelical Christians they thought they knew the whole truth. But as they...
01:06:18
January 17, 2024
Episode 50 The Power of Prayer
Today, we’re discussing the power of prayer…and it’s not what you’ve been told.
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January 10, 2024
Pebbles 38 Taste the Buffet
This week we talk about the ways evangelical Christianity is similar to a food buffet
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January 05, 2024
Episode 49 Our Views on Zionism
This week we share a little about the Zionist movement, what it is, who’s behind it, and one way it could be sto...
01:17:12
January 03, 2024
Episode 48 New Year, Be You
It’s a new year and many are creating their well-intentioned delusions, er resolutions. Whatever you resolve to ...
01:08:17
December 27, 2023
Episode 47 Christmas Times Past
What do hotdogs, homemade puppets, and prime rib all have in common? Join us as we reminisce about Christmases of ...
01:23:44
December 20, 2023
Pebbles 34 Protect Your Seedling
This week we discuss the necessity of protecting yourself from the onslaught of words, ideas, and arguments that n...
00:22:56
December 15, 2023
Episode 46 Is It Santa or Satan?
In this episode, we share our childhood memories of Christmas and how many of the Christian traditions are steeped...
01:11:26
December 13, 2023
This week we talk about deconstructing judgment even on evangelicals. The episode ends with a little request from ...
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December 08, 2023
Episode 44 Family Matters
The holiday season is upon us! This week we discuss ways you can interact with those pesky evangelical Christians ...
01:23:13
November 29, 2023
Episode 43 Thanksgiving is There
Thanksgiving is the holiday of thankfulness. But to many, it’s just a blip stuck between Halloween and Christma...
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November 22, 2023
Episode 42 Evangelize Me!
This week, Dan and Candi compare and contrast evangelicalism within and without the Christian church.
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November 15, 2023
Episode 40 Roles of Gender
Dan and Candi revisit the topic of sexist, archaic gender roles in Christianity. We are thankful to be set free fr...
01:18:44
November 01, 2023
Episode 39 Now, This is Halloween
In this episode, Dan and Candi talk about past Halloween experiences: the good, the bad, and the beautiful.
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October 25, 2023
Pebbles 26 Who Wears the Masks
This week, Dan and Candi discuss masks - why we wear them, when we wear them, and when we should take them off.
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00:23:48
October 20, 2023
Pebbles 25 Fear the Faithful
Who should we really fear? Christians tend to fear everything, but we think the phone call is coming from inside t...
00:23:45
October 13, 2023
Episode 37 Purity Culture Destroys
In this week's episode, Dan and Can discuss the damage of purity culture on sexuality, communication, and conn...
01:31:11
October 11, 2023
Pebbles 24 You Shall Not Hall Pass
What if a wife gives her husband a hall pass? Judgment comes easily within Christianity but also without. True fre...
00:21:36
October 06, 2023
Episode 36 Purity Culture Trauma
Evangelical Christianity’s toxic teachings on sexuality are harming future generations for years to come.
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October 04, 2023
Pebbles 23 Christian Humor?
In our humble opinion, Christian humor is an oxymoron.
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September 29, 2023
Episode 35 Purity Culture Begins
Where did Purity Culture Come From? Check out this week’s podcast as we discuss the early days of purity cultu...
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September 27, 2023
Pebbles 22 Coming Out of the Dark
This week, we share how our podcast safety was compromised and how what started in fear was transformed into a lea...
00:21:32
September 22, 2023
The Church Needs De-Hypnotized
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September 15, 2023
Episode 33 Our Marriage Story
In this episode, we share our own journey as two, young, naive Christian lovers who have grown into a happier, old...
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September 13, 2023
Christian Service vs Serving Others
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September 08, 2023
Episode 32 - Married with Children
Well, we put the cart (kids and parenting) before the horse (love and marriage), but would you expect anything dif...
01:10:35
September 06, 2023
Hypnotize me!
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00:27:55
September 01, 2023
Christian heaven sounds a lot like Christian love…awful
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August 25, 2023
Prayer, FACTS, Law, and more
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August 18, 2023
National Lampoon vacation to undercooked pork
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August 11, 2023
Pebble 15 Got a Will? Fix it.
In this little plink, we talk about changing our dying wishes post deconstruction, how sneaky Xian businesses can ...
00:25:51
August 04, 2023
“Judge not, lest you be judged.” Every evangelical knows this phrase. But what does it mean post deconstructio...
00:32:02
July 28, 2023
Is Spanking a Form of Abuse?
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July 21, 2023
Pebble 12
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July 14, 2023
Today, we chat about our party styles pre and post deconstruction and then take a bunch of tangents…go figure.
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July 07, 2023
This week Dan and Candi just wing the conversation. Enjoy all the gems (ehem…pebbles) they left!
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June 30, 2023
Pebble 9 - Stinking Thinking
Today, Dan and Candi talk about the apparent lack of critical thinking skills in the fundamentalist evangelical Ch...
00:34:56
June 23, 2023
This week our middle child, Calvin, joins us for some laughs and silly conversation. Join us as we playfully inter...
00:35:19
June 16, 2023
Ever heard an evangelical say, “What happens if you’re wrong?” about your deconstruction? Here’s our respo...
00:31:52
June 09, 2023
Episode 19 - What the Hell?
In this episode, Candi’s sister, Jessi, joins us, and we’re talking about eternal punishment.
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June 07, 2023
Today we talk about the Target/Pride conflict with Evangelical Christians. It’s a lose-lose for evangelicals if ...
00:26:44
June 02, 2023
Today, we discuss a recent graduation gift that didn’t make the impression intended. Or did it?
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00:28:53
May 26, 2023
Have you ever threatened divorce in the middle of a home renovation project? Dan and Can discuss how party plannin...
00:25:59
May 19, 2023
Fruity Pebbles, Flowers, & Other Marriage Failures
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May 12, 2023
In this second Pebbles episode, Dan and Candi marvel at the miracles they are having survived living as free-range...
00:23:25
May 06, 2023
Just a quick pebble to get you thinking.
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May 03, 2023
Episode 14 - The B-I-B-L-E
In this episode, Dan and Can begin a series all about the Bible, what it is, what it isn’t, and its purpose for ...
01:07:17
May 03, 2023
Episode 13 - For the Love of God
This week our good friend Leah kind us as we discuss the love of God and how, if understood, casts out ALL fear. L...
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April 26, 2023
Episode 12 - People Pleasing
Join husband and wife, Dan and Candi, as they discuss how the evangelical church produces people pleasers (especia...
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April 19, 2023
Episode 11 - Guilt & Shame
Join Dan and Candi as they discuss the difference between guilt and shame and how shame creates a-holes with thick...
01:02:12
April 12, 2023
Episode 10 - Praise and Worship…
In this episode, Dan and Candi start out discussing WAP (ahem, worship and praise) but end up talking about anythi...
01:06:29
April 05, 2023
Episode 9 - Pretend Persecution
Join us in this episode where we talk about the manufactured persecution of the American Evangelical Christian Chu...
00:55:01
March 29, 2023
In this episode, Dan and Can talk about the manipulation tactic of evangelical revival.
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00:53:32
March 22, 2023
Episode 7 - Cognitive Dissonance+
In this episode of Drop the Stones, Dan and Candi discuss cognitive dissonance, purity culture, and a bunch of oth...
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March 15, 2023
Episode 6 - Psalty Meatloaf Music
In this episode, Dan expresses his love for U2, Pearl Jam, Tool and More, while Candi expresses her preference for...
01:10:34
March 08, 2023
In this episode, Dan and Candi delve deeper into the topic of salvation and the Gospel. Do we really need saved? I...
01:11:56
March 01, 2023
Episode 4 - Salvation from What?
In this episode of Drop the Stones, we discuss salvation. What are we being saved from?
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February 22, 2023
In this episode of Drop the Stones, we discuss sin, law, and freedom. What is sin? Does it exist anymore? What was...
01:24:53
February 15, 2023
In this episode, Dan and Candi discuss gender roles in complementarian evangelical marriages.
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February 08, 2023
Welcome to our first episode of Drop the Stones! It's taken us a year to finally get this in motion. Join us while...
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February 01, 2023
Drop The Stones - Introduction
Join married couple, Dan and Candi, on this weekly podcast exploring faith deconstruction and reconstruction of th...
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February 01, 2023
